Preschool in Ypsilanti Discusses 6 Ways to Deal With Tattling at Home

Is your child a tattletale?
 
Are you worried that your child may not outgrow tattling?
 
Tattling is common in most households, so there’s nothing to fret over. The cause is often sibling rivalry if it’s happening at home, so make sure you give each child the attention they deserve. If you can work through the tattling problem with your child, imagine being able to come home from work to a home that’s relaxed, comfortable, and much less stressed. When you and your children get along well, that dream can become a reality!
 

How to Fix a Tattletale Problem:

According to MetroParent Magazine, there are nine things that can help combat your child’s tattling problem, including:

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1. Consider the motivation behind the tattling
2. Teach the difference between minor and important telling if someone is in danger
3. Acknowledge your child’s feelings
4. Coach your child on problem-solving skills
5. Be a mediator between the children to help figure out a resolution
6. Play the role of supportive consultant rather than punishing or taking sides
7. Maximize listening skills by taking an interest in what your child has to say
8. Use matter-of-fact phrases like “There are only two grownups in this house, and it’s our responsibility to enforce the rules.”
9. Wait it out! Your child should outgrow tattling eventually

If you come home every day your young child can’t wait to tattle on their older sibling, you’re going to be annoyed and frustrated. So, there’s no harm in trying some of these techniques. They could make a huge difference for your peace of mind!
 
If you decide to try some of these things with your child, we’d like to know how they works for you. In addition, are there any other alternatives that already work for you that you’d like to suggest to other parents? Please let us know in the comments! At Little Angels Preschool in Ypsilanti serving Saline, Ann Arbor, Milan, and the surrounding areas, we’re dedicated to our students’ health and well-being.

7 Ultimate Ways To Deal With a New Sibling

Thinking about expanding your family?

How will your child handle a little brother or sister?

Are you worried that your child won’t accept a new child into your home?

Every parent has the same worries; you’re not alone! There is good cause for concern because not all siblings get along. If you had brothers and sisters growing up you know it wasn’t a cake walk. It was probably a struggle sharing, playing nice, and competing for your parent’s attention 24/7.

According to the University of Michigan Health System, help your child adjust to their baby brother or sister by doing the following:

1. Set aside special time for your older child.
2. Listen to how your child feels about the baby.
3. Make sure it’s very clear that no hurting is allowed when they’re angry.
4. Have some special “big brother” or “big sister” gifts to give your child as friends and relatives start showing up with baby gifts, so your older child won’t feel left out.
5. Give them special jobs that they can do to help the family and let them help with the baby’s care.
6. Make sure the older child has things of their own.
7. Point out the benefits of being an older child.

Give these recommendations a try. Your child will be able to adjust better to a changing family dynamic if they’re aware of what’s going on, rather than being left in the dark. Your child will be able to grasp the concept better if you prepare them ahead of time. This will allow you to feel less worried as your older child and new baby learn about one another.

If you decide to try some of these things with your child, we’d like to know how it works for you. In addition, are there any other alternatives that already work for you that you’d like to suggest to other parents? Please let us know in the comments! At Little Angels Preschool in Ypsilanti serving Saline, and the surrounding areas, we’re dedicated to our students’ health and well-being.

7 Tricks to Master Toilet Training!

Are you struggling to potty train your child? 

Is your child having a hard time grasping the concept of going to the bathroom?

Are you worried your child may fall behind in development?

Don’t worry! In time, your child will conform when they’re ready. Often, parents worry too much because they want their child to be considered normal. What is normal exactly? Everyone is different and progresses at their own pace, so give your child a chance!

We have compiled a list of tricks to master toilet training. We hope you see successes after using these tricks at home, including:

1. Schedule potty breaks.
2. Help your child notice the signs such as squirming, squatting or holding themselves.
3. Consider bribes.
4. Throw away the diapers!
5. Know when to take a break if your child isn’t getting the hang of it.
6. Praise your child when they do it right.
7. Avoid shaming your child when accidents happen. 

According to the Mayo Clinic, “occasional accidents are harmless, but they can lead to teasing, embarrassment and alienation from peers. If your potty-trained child reverts or loses ground — especially at age 4 or older — or you're concerned about your child's accidents, contact his or her doctor. Sometimes wetting problems indicate an underlying physical condition, such as a urinary tract infection or an overactive bladder. Prompt treatment can help your child become accident-free.”

If you decide to try some of these things with your child, we’d like to know how it works for you. In addition, are there any other alternatives that already work for you that you’d like to suggest to other parents? Please let us know in the comments! At Little Angels Daycare in Ypsilanti serving Saline, we’re dedicated to our students’ health and well-being.

Do you know of a parent looking for a quality daycare in Ypsilanti, Saline or the surrounding areas? Please encourage them to contact us to schedule a tour of Little Angels Preschool & Daycare.